The Ups and Downs of Dirty Talk and Phone Sex

Do you like to have dirty talk? Have you ever had phone sex? I used to be in a long-distance relationship and I have to say that Skype and cheap calls to foreign countries really made it pretty spicy and helped us forget for a moment that we were so far away from each other.

Of course, it really shouldn’t be a last resort thing. Talking dirty is a huge turn on and allows us to express our passion and lust, and to let our partner know how much we want him / her.

However, it’s not always easy to be on the same page when letting our fantasies out of our mouths. Sometimes, it can be more frustrating that anything else, and sometimes it can be just what you need to have an amazing experience.

Here are a few videos from movies and tv shows that express pretty well the ups and downs of dirty talk and phone sex.

1. Candace and Betty from The L Word.

The other day I wrote a post about the L Word’s sex scenes, and I found this one, but I decided to keep it for this occasion…Betty and Candace end up in jail because of a protest, and it’s clear that they think they shouldn’t get together ever again. However, the sexual tension is palpable. This scene is incredibly sexy, and knowing that they can’t have sex in their cell makes it even sexier.

Their imagination and the words take their desire to another level and turns them (and us) on so much!

2.Miranda in Sex & The City

I love Miranda, but she always has such bad luck with guys. Of course, she’s a bit difficult herself, so she has trouble connecting and being on the same page as others. That’s why I love this scene so much. Everything is going smoothly, she’s opened herself to talking dirty and she’s enjoying it a lot, until she says the one thing that apparently that guy couldn’t hear…

3. Drew Barrymore and Justin Long in ‘Going the Distance’

This scene is the exact representation of the perks of phone sex. In a way, it’s great because you can imagine whatever you want, you can make reality look good and sexy, even if you’re just wearing sweat pants and eating popcorn. However, it can also be difficult to be on the same page with your partner, because when you let your fantasies out, they don’t always match the other one’s.

But I think phone sex is not about setting a specific fantasy, in a specific place. It can just be “I want to fuck you hard” and it’s usually enough to get going. Don’t you think?

4. Ross and Joey in ‘Friends’

This scene is hilarious. It’s not very sexy, of course, but it’s funny as hell. Of course when your partner wants to talk dirty, and you’ve never done it, it can be a little bit difficult. It doesn’t come naturally to many people and sometimes, a little preparation is in order.

5. The Movie Geek’s Guide to Talking Dirty

You may have seen this video before. It came out in 2010 and it contains a LOT of dirty talk scenes from mainstream movies. One of my favorites is the one from Pulp Fiction. “Will you give me oral pleasure?”. I love it. And it’s not because I’m French.